As Brothers...by blood....by tears...by joy....

Older Brothers are like sweet but sour candy that you can’t get enough of. Even though they sometimes make your eyes twitch and your lips pucker, you can’t seem to resist them.

They tease you and may drive your crazy, but they will also protect you and love you. So we’ve come up with the 20 things to remind girls about the amazing benefits of having an older brother.

1. He taught you how to understand boys and men alike.

Men or boys can be hard to deal with and for a girl, having an elder brother can provide great insight to understanding them. From the time a young lady starts dating, an elder brother can help her navigate through and past a lot of the early misunderstandings she may experience at the start of the relationships.

Having an elder brother and his advice at hand can help you avoid a lot of relationship heartaches. Or, at least, get through them.

2. He taught you how to be patient.

As a sister, you are probably all too familiar with the pranks and goofy games boys play. On a positive note, this taught you how to be patient. Whether its motherhood and parenting or dealing with others, having an elder brother has taught you to not get angry or be frustrated too easily.

3. He showed you how to be tough.

Girls who have older brothers tend to make good fighters, literally and figuratively. You learn to stand up for yourself and make your voice heard. You learn to not get pushed around by anyone.

The wrestling matches you get into with your brother teach you to stay strong and never give up. He might be stronger than you, but you learn to become cunning.

4. He introduced you to sports.

For most young girls, an older brother begins your lifelong obsession with sports or your favorite sports teams. If you are an avid sports enthusiast, chances are, you have a lot of fond memories enjoying watching ball games with your older brother.

5. He taught you how to compete.

Having an older brother is great because he teaches you how to tap into your competitive side. As you try to succeed in any career path, this skill will become an asset.

An older brother gives you great insight into the male dominant world of competition. He will also help develop your self-esteem and leadership skills.

6. He taught you to keep your emotions in check.

It is no secret that girls are typically more emotional than boys. However, girls who grow up with brothers learn to keep their emotions in check.

They learn to “suck it up” and move on. Growing up among boys means you will most likely learn to play the role of comforter in tricky or tragic situations.

7. He taught you chivalry.

Older brothers teach their little sisters exactly how they should be treated by a man. As a little sister, you notice the way he treats your mom or his girlfriend and that in turn creates the standard that you will hold all men who try to date you to.

The way you let men treat you today is probably what you learned from your older brother.

8. He will always protect you.

Sometimes a girl just needs to be protected by her older brother. Like a lion to its cubs, men take on a very protective nature or role when it comes to the well-being of their little sisters.

You don’t have to worry about any creepy men coming around with your older brother in the picture.

9. He looks to you to keep him accountable.

As a little sister, one thing you may not realize is that you help keep your older brother in check and accountable for his actions. Because he knows you are looking up to him, he will probably not do all the dumb things boys are typically knows to do. Just some.

10. You get to be his personal stylist.

You are probably responsible for any kind of style and class your older brother may have. It is no secret that most men don’t know how to dress themselves, so little sisters often take on the role of personal stylist to their older brothers.

11. You teach him compassion.

It is impossible for an older brother to stay mad and upset at his little sister for too long. In this sense, you teach him early on compassion and how to forgive.

No matter what you do, your older brother will always have room in his heart for you.

12. You will never need to hire a mover.

You know all too well that life can get very busy. You move to college, move into a new apartment or need help hauling heavy equipment. No matter what it is, having an older brother means you will never need to hire someone to help you move your stuff.

He is always going to be there to literally help you move the heavy stuff in your life.

13. You will always have a steady stream of good men to date.

Eventually most girls would love to get married. However it can be difficult sometimes to find good men to date. Having an older brother means you will have a steady stream of suitors.

Some may be his friends and others may be guys who try to get to know him as a way to get to know you. Whatever the case, when it comes to dating, having an older brother can be a very productive resource.

14. You got to teach him about girls.

Men typically don’t know much about girls. However your brother has the upper hand to learning just how to treat or talk to a woman.

Whenever he is having girl problems, you know he will always reach out to you for advice. Like he has been there for you to learn about the opposite sex, you have been his source of learning too. And an older brother learns to confide in his little sister.

15. He teaches you self-defense.

In this day and age, it has become increasingly important for girls to know how to use a weapon to protect themselves. More than likely, if you know how to operate a weapon like a gun or a knife, you learned it from your older brother.

16. He takes the brunt of parenting.

Having an older sibling mean someone already absorbed the bad parenting skills of mom and dad. By the time you come around, their skills are more refined and relaxed.

For younger sisters, having an older brother may mean that your parents won’t be so hard on you.

17. He teaches you what’s cool.

From a young age, a girl might turn to her older brother who seems to have more knowledge and expertise about the world. They often, for example, teach you about pop culture and world events.

Having an older brother can be a gateway to learning so much about the world.

18. He’s there to help you financially.

Older brothers love to take on a father figure type role when it comes to their younger sisters. This often means helping them out financially.

For example, since he is older and probably already working, chances are you can ask him for money whenever mom or dad says no.

19. He teaches you to laugh at yourself and be silly.

Life is serious enough, but having an older brother can teach you to enjoy the humor of practical jokes. A lot of times, boys will play pranks.Andsometimes you get to be included on those with your brother.
Learning to roll with the punches will teach you to not take life so seriously and be able to laugh at yourself.

20. He is a shoulder to cry on.

Part of the protective nature of an older brother is being a good listener or a comfortable shoulder to cry on. Knowing that you can always count on him to listen without criticism or judgement is the glue that binds little sisters to their older brothers.

Much like the love of a father, an older brother tends to love his little sister unconditionally.



credit to: http://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/20-amazing-things-about-having-older-brother.html 

INSPIRATION

I'm writing this facing a huge bold mountain when gigantic wave tsunami may or about to hit you....You can be safe on top of it.The sky was pale as the dark blue clouds filled with moisture hanging around on the sky. The lower view are terrace of rubber plantation. On the fifth floor...the view was fine and pleasing.Just image on the seventh floor. The sorrow and the burden which hit you are impaled or protected by shield of unknown up and down feelings.Sometimes it hurt, sometimes you're over happy till lapping to the clouds like crazy bunch of...I don't know. I told one of my coursemates about this..but it seems...SURPRISE!!...we had the same problems....the same issues....The whole block seems empty and cold as most of them went home during study leave. It's not stress...its a kind of loneliness that had been haunted most of us...At some points you need to get out...get some air...warm yourself under the sun...listen when nature whisper to you through the echoes of warm sunny breeze. It seems like a psycho was on the keyboard after escaping from a World War I asylum something.....but that's the truth....Don't be too optimist....It's your life...never let anything take control on you. Just imagine how life would be if you fly freely like an eagle proudly on the air.....freely...you decide your life.....you are yourself and can't be replace by no one.....you are unique....make something special out of you..be holistic....be inspired...
LOVE YOURSELF.....COZ......NO ONE AIN'T GOT TIME FOR IT

A Hint of Spices~~~Life Spams

Selalunya aku meroyan tak tentu arah...exactly the same month few years back.....I started to waving around like a bunch of crazy apes that got the hunger for human brains. To the one that I meant to be or not to be. Under the coven witches all gathered....Under the moonlight they all dance...Non nay of them ignore each other because they are one with the earth...It had been so tough...I stared up looking at those majestic hills...as if it will fell on me...gave me a headache. It never and does not matter me....as time flies. The festival of thanksgiving of the River Mother had begun. The festival which fall on the full harvest bloom moon night, The source of Mekong which starts from the tip top of south east Asia which des not end provide source and food to Her child which depends on her throughout the year. Even the demigods and mythical creatures depends on Her. The mighty kingdom of Siem Reap or Angkor Wat which belongs to Paramavishnuloka(Suryavarman II) was built around the mother river. At the end of the year,the river mother will roam as if shes's angry with everyone.But in that havoc and angry of a mother...she still provide fertile soil and fishes to her child.....I was in my room just now and came this feeling.I can't even tell that do I really miss my family under this much of pressure. but I'm very proud of my Media Writing group.They were the best partner ever!and for the first time in my life...I'll be stepping my foot to police station for an interview. GOD SAVE US.

I Meroyan kejap jerrr~~~ #BAuBudu

16/08/11~ buke nok oyak gapow~~~sokmo kalu ari rabu gak....nok pecoh palo sero~~Dage membue nok silo cik x brapo nok leh mek weyh~~Sokmo ginih.....Ingat koh abih doh banyok~~tapi koho timbon sapa palo~~dok tau nk wak gapo dohhhhh mek weyh~~~Serabuk peruk!!Nok oyak lonih supo ikle Kashmir Carpet!!Hargo gilo pecoh~~~Lembik tekok penna butir mato!!Kalu nok tulih bui jelas...takot DEMO2 boh besar kelih pulok~~~Jenih kakah spy blako!!Tahu caro hal ore jah!!Nok wak rano...mugo kito nih kuli batok jahhh~~~~~keno ikot jubor demo sokmo......biar hidu ponn!!Hidop nih kalu x nyusoh kok ore x leh koh!??!******Maahlahh......mugo kito nih umor sekepal nasik jah.....

Kade2 sero nok tiow...male2 sero nok lari kelik...jupo mok abah...tapi ingat ko harape dio ore~~~sayu jah ati nih...kito usoho jugok...nok ludoh mati anok...nok tele mati diri.....
Ambo lonih supow kapal terbelangkai di kualo....takdok nakhoda~~tidok bersauh~~Nih nok oyak ko kakok2 abe2 adik2 blako...hidop kat sinih buke supo hok kito dngr...sedak halwa telingo!Oyak masok U rilek!ikot suko nok gi kelas ko dok...tapi hakikat dio....nok cabut nyawo~~~

Freedom Cry~

Merenung ker semua? Cuti "Sembreak" habis dah!!!HAhahahahahhaahhaa!!!AMboi! gembira tapi dalam hati sumpah seranah! Aku tahu lahhh!!!Terutama yang baru lepas deepavali semalam. Dah kena balik kan~~Dah la sampai Pusat pengajian masing2 ada Midterm Exam.!!HAhhahahahahahahaa! TAK BERHATI PERUT kau kata???Ehhh...orang bagi cuti bukan suruh beraya tau!!tapi cuti diberi bersama assignmentsssssssss dan baca buku!!!!!

AKU TAK MAHU COMMENT BANYAK!!NANI JADI ISU BESAR!MENCARUT PULAK CAM MULUT MAK BIDAH JUAL BELACAN TEPI PANTAI TUHH!!!


Okeyy....arinih kita tengok tentang CONTEXT OF COMMUNICATION!!!Sambil layan lagu Hindustan~~~Huhuhuhuhuhuhuhuhuhuhuu....dah..nank start kecek bahaso penjajoh inggeris dh nih.

CONTEXT OF COMMUNICATION
Def: Communication that help us to be a better person in all aspect such as spiritual aspect and other aspect in life. 



There are 9 type of communication context:
1. Spiritual Communication
2. Intrapersonal
3.Interpersonal
4.Small Group
5.Organizational
6.Corporate
7.Public/Rhetorical
8.Mass
9.Intercultural

1. refers to communication with God(Religious belief) such as prayers & reading religious text
2.Internal involvement of individual(Internal monologue)
3.process which people create and manage relationship,exercising mutual responsibilities in creating and sharing meaning.
4. Communication that involve 3 and 15 to 20 ppl. e.g. you're talking with your coursemate about incident that happened in lecture hall just now.
5.Occurs in organization in dynamic manner or members in the same department.
6.Field of study that involve communication aspect in corporate.
7.to share infos in the hope to change the mindset of audience and make audience agree at the message they accept.
8.communication which messages are created by sender and distribute to audience through old media.e.g newspaper,radio,TV
8.Communication between human with different culture.



Haarhhh!!!!HAHahahahahhahaaa!!!!dah faham???Heyy..nih nok royak..aq pon sedih ugok..mugo nok kelik doh....buke nyoo sedak sangat pon situh....nok make pon payoh...harak koh makene muroh jag...blh lah mugo aq duk klte pon makene lebih kure jah pengaroh sie alik nuh!

Acu mung bayeke lahhh!!!!Ore duk rayo....dengan lagu rancok merioh!X ke mung nok baco weyhhh!!!Mood tuh x mari!!Aq 2 male doh tidor pkul 5.00am!cubo siapke sagalo nyoh!!
!Bengong tau!!! Hok nih sore..aku royak keluargo ado smaye!!Tapi dio nyo jawak bendo bodo ko aq!!Smaye tiap2 tahun pon blh!!!Weyhhhh....aq kuci mulot jahh!X leh oyak gapow ponn!!

DEEPAVALI EVE~~ITS SIGNIFICANT~and my MEREPEK!!!

PADAYAL!!AND AFTER THAT...YEAHH...WE ALL ATE THAT AS AN OFFERING...SOme JUST PLACE IT INTO A RIVER......GAVE BIRDS OR THE DOGS......

Heyy...

3 more days to go....I'll be in the land of Indera Kayangan.....humm...(only those who knew the meaning of Diwali will felt sad....)......nonsense..hahahahahahhaahhaaaa!!

Well...Its the eve of Diwali....tonight..most of the Tamil will honour their ancestors...remembering them...offer prayers for their soul to remain in peace...Offer food to them...which in Tamil know as "Padayal" A huge lumps of fluffy hot steamy rice were put on a layed big banana leaf in front of the memorial altar,....any prefered food by the departed ancestors such as Chicken,mutton curry,veggies,fruits,sweet meats..were offered...

Incense and dupa were lit up and sweet fragrance smoke fill the air......This smell remind us hindu's of home as daily puja or prayers were conducted......Diya(Holy light) and incense will be burn as an offerings to Gods.

On this night,my family in particular....we'll enjoy to the max!We'll talk...we'll eat...my uncles and dad will crack jokes....woow!!!U CANT EXPERIENCE THIS ELSEWHERE!!! The ladies will cut veggies and do all the preparation for cooking.WE WON'T SLEEP!Hahahahahhaaa!!!Then about 4.00AM.....my mom and aunt will woke my uncle up.....to help the cooking.OBVIOUSLY....you need a man to stir the pounds of meat in the wok!!!

It was a memorable night....Me and one of my cousin(She had her exam this year...will not be home on diwali).......will help my aunt(her mom) to stir custard on the stove!Such a sweet memories........I KNOW...EXAM ON DIWALI WEEK SHOULD BE BANDED!! LIke really!!!DIWALI WEEK??EXAM?????THATS NOT FAIR!!!!AND IF WE VOICE THIS OUT!!!!! SOME OF THEM...and SOME OF US MAY SAID......LIFE IS NOT FAIR!!!!!......THE SOME OF US......they wont fight!!!THEY SHOULD FIGHT!!!I MEAN!LIFE IS NOT A TRUE LIFE IF YOU JUST FOLLOW THE FLOW AND NEVER TAKE RISK!!!!!

TAKE RISK!!EXPLORE!!!!FIGHT FOR JUSTICE!!!!!THATs THE WAY!!!

SOME PEOPLE JUST DONT KNOW THE ESSENCE AND MEANING OF THIS DIWALI!!!WHYYY?????? BECAUSE THEIR FAMILY NEVER CELEBRATE IT AS THE WAY IT SHOULD!!!!  GOSHHH!!!!!  SOME PEOPLE CANT BE CHANGED!!!!  JUST LET THEM BE!!!!!

Back to our topic.....hhahahahhahahahahaa...AKU MEREPEK BANYAK LAH ......but I believe that...MATA PENA LEBIH TAJAM!!


TO ALL HINDUS THAT CELEBRATE DEEPAVALI,

WISH U A PROSPEROUS DEEPAVALI.....FILL THE ENVIROMENT AND AIR WITH JOYUS FEELINGS WITH FAMILY AND FRIENDS.....GIVE TO THE POOR TO.....AND SHALL U GET THEIR BLESSINGS......at least....TOUCH THE LEGS OF THE ELDERS.....THEIR BLESSINGS IS SO ESSENTIAL...AND YOU NEED IT IN YOUR LIFE.....SERIOUSLY..hahahahahhaahaaa


HAPPY DEEPAVALI...

VANAKKAM & SAWADEE KHAP.

Wonders in mind full of poo

Hey folks....Its 2.36am now as I was lurking in my room....as usual...I threw away my guitar...although it was already in a bad condition!FUCK!....OppppSSS!!!

Well here we are..lets talk about...COMMUNICATION!!!Common sense bro.....COMMUNICATION!!!

Proudly with honor and Dignity....I announced that...I"M A COMMUNICATION STUDENT!! and I'M sure that everyone thought it was a so out of dated kind of thing..HELLO!!!!...without communication...there is no LIFE!!I guarantee that!!!!!

And it is so difficult for a communication students...to keep their mouth shut even for a second. That is interesting enough compared to other faculty students...AM I RIGHT?

Well,Communication is a process of exchange/transmit information through various medium& involve sender and receiver. of course it derived from the latin morphology "communicare" which means to make common or to share(Theodorson&Theodorson1969).

My lecture would much prefer the meaning by West & Turner, communication is a social process which individuals employ symbols to established and intepret meaning in their enviroment. Without any doubt he sure will divide and asked each menaing of SOCIAL PROCESS....SYMBOLS.....MEANING...and......ENVIROMENT....


SOCIAL PROCESS is the interaction between sender and receiver with various intentions to communicate.

SYMBOL is a representation of messages in form of verbal & non verbal forms.

MEANING is on what people understand and extract from a messages received

ENVIROMENTS is a situation or context where communications took place/occurs


LET's TALK ABOUT NON-VERBAL COMMUNICATION
~Its going to be damn interesting because homo sapiens nowadays love to express themselves through facial expression,body gestures,and non words sounds like.Eeeeww......Ermmm.....Erkkkk......Krikk...Krikkk...hahahhahahhahahahaxDD!Well thats the meaning for non-verbal communication.

This type of communication can be divided into 6 types of non verbal which is

1)Kinesics(body gestures,postures)
2)Proxemics(Uses of space)
3)Chronemics(Uses of time by people)
4)Tactile(Use of touch)
5)Paralinguistic(non word sounds)
6)Objectics(Artifacts e.g.shirts colours,hairstyles hipsters)

NOw...NOISE

it is a type or distraction...THIS WAS THE FIRST QUESTION THAT BEEN ASKED BY MY Lecture DURING TUTORIAL..........HHAHAHAHHAHAHHAxD!!!
I was just sit in a corner of the lecture hall...and He pointed me.....asked to to answer his question.....WHAT IS THE DEFINATION OF NOISE.???
"I WAS LIKE.....WHAT THE HELL??? and I answered: " Its a distraction that occurs in the process of communication"......WALLAHHHHH!!!!!!! HE SAID HE LIKED MY ANSWER!!!!
hahahahaahahahahaaa...or else I would be labeled as MANGKUK AYUN that day!!!hahahahahhahahaha!!!!!


I almost forgot.....Gosh......MODELS OF COMMUNICATIONS

See.....there are also beautiful models in communications....I proudly would like to state that....THERE ARE TRIPLE GODDESS OF COMMUNICATION MODELS that is:
1)LINEAR MODEL-where sender encodes a message via a channel then decode by receiver.it is a one way communication without any feedback,comments or what so ever loads of shit jizz!!!Just a message was send to the receiver.thats it!CHAPTER CLOSED!!

2)INTERACTIONAL MODEL - where a sender send message through channel and received by receiver...then receiver send feedback to sender.and that's it.STOP!NOT SIMULTANEOUS !!!

3)TRANSACTIONAL MODEL-where message is send and received,receiver gave feedback to sender...so do sender.Both parties can give feedback simultaneously!!!Thats the key word: SIMULTANEOUSLY!!!!

and YES...COMMUNICATION IS

1)Purposeful
2)Transactional
3)Package of Signals
4)Process of Adjustments
5)Ambigious
6)Punctuated
7)INVITABLE,IRREVERSIBLE, and UNREPEATABLE

****SO folks....there are 2 more days for deepavali....well I don'T know because there is a mixture of feelings now. I'll be back to my campus soon.....facing all the ghost entities there.....busy with my field work and studies....at the same time I miss my family here....and there's a midterm test just around the corner~~~~URGHHH!!......hurmmm...I guess that is a life of a university student. You know, I don't really like and its not my cup of tea when I don't like  person......other person should NEVER EVER FORCE me to like that particular person. Its confusing......hahhaahhaa....here's an example.......When you don't talk to Individual A........Individual B should not ever become a medium of fucking interaction to make peace between me and individual A...... and don't act like you're the boss in every aspect!!Don't you feel shame of yourself by doing that??!Com'on!!There're much more vital things to do on your life!!!MOVE ON!!!--->>>IM NOT AVOIDING/BLOCK ANYONE ON SOCIAL MEDIA FOR A PURPOSE...BUT ITS REALLY A PURPOSE ACTUALLY......I'M REMOVING AS MUCH NEGATIVENESS AROUND ME......LIKE BURNING SAGE FOR A HOUSE CLEANSING CEREMONY....THAT'S IT.

Well...this is not a brief notes or something,I just write it up whats on my mind and based on what I understand from what I studied.....Do comment here if there's any additional points.

will update for Deepavali******

MEnunggu Bussss

Well, just to be honest, I'm living in a world...yes it's a world coz we live in an institute where everything was told in the last minute of time. God bless you, Hallelujahhh!!!! when you able to adapt the situation past here.

Still remember how  I struggle here for past few months! With the weather which sometimes may rain heavily and in a sudden, the sun waving his sunlight on you. Remarkable! The places was a vast of paddy fields and surely surrounded by mountain in the border of Siam,(present day Thailand).

It feels like home as me myself came from the land of Cik Siti, which is also situated in the border of Siam. I came from a deep both Hindu and Siamese blood, from my parents, who cares!Don't make religion as a border for us to interact!Plus, its all foir in love and war!!

Some people just don't understand how happy for a student who study away from their hometown or abroad to get a chance and go home!Some people just don't get it!!!I don't know!!!Is there any solution to this???!!!!! JUst use your nerves!!!C.O.M.M.O.N_S.E.N.S.E!!!!!


Lets set that apart!!! This coming 29 oct mark the arrival of the festival of light by the Hindu! For us. THE MALAYSIAN TAMIL in MALAYSIA.....had only this for PUBLIC HOLIDAY!!! Thaipusam is on the another hand as not all the place in MALAYSIA were given PUBLIC HOLIDAY especially in my Land of KELANTAN. This was the only chance where all the family members will gather!Pay respect and worship our ancestors. Eat...Dance...Talk.....Laugh all night long! To student,some of us can't even go home....alasan...FINAL EXAM.....ASSIGNMENTSSSSSSS!!!!....WAT-SO-EVER........hummmm....WILL BE UPDATE ABOUT DEEPAVALI PREPARATION SOON!!!!!!!
-----------TUNGGU BUS NAK BALIK KELATE!!!